My New Wife Demanded I Use My Late Wife’s Money Left for Our Kids on Her Daughters — My Lesson Was Strict
I was aware that my second marriage would bring about changes, but I never imagined my second wife would pursue my first wife’s assets. Not for her future, but for the future of our girls. She believed she could coerce me into doing it. She would never forget the lesson that followed.
I was holding a picture of my late wife and our daughters at the beach when a tear fell from my eye. I said, “I miss you, Ed,” as my fingertips ran over Edith’s face in the photo. “The girls are maturing so quickly. I hope you can see them right now.” Her eyes sparkled with a vitality that cancer had taken far too soon, and she was beaming brightly as she smiled up at me in the picture.
A gentle tap stopped me in my tracks. With concern in her eyes, my mother stuck her head in.
Charlie, my dear, you have to let go of the past. Three years have passed. You must go on. A mother figure is needed for those girls.”
I let out a sigh and put the picture frame down. “We’re doing great, Mom. The females are — “
“Getting older!” She interrupted me and sat down on the couch next to me. “You’re not getting any younger, even though I know you’re trying. And that sweet woman at your office? Gabriela?
I massaged my temples, sensing the beginning of a headache. “Gaby? She’s simply a coworker, Mom.”
And, similar to you, a single father, a single mother. Charlie, give it some thought. For the benefit of the girls.”
I kept thinking about her comments as she walked away. Perhaps she was correct. Perhaps it was time to give it a go.
A year later, I was watching Gaby with my girls in our backyard. She entered our lives abruptly, and before I realized it, we had tied the knot.
Though not exactly the same as with Edith, it was nonetheless pleasant.
“Daddy! My youngster said, doing a cartwheel, “Watch this!”
I forced a smile as I clapped. “Great job, sweetie!”
Gaby approached me and put her arm through mine. “Charlie, those females are amazing. You did a fantastic job.
I nodded, swallowing the twinge of guilt that came every time she said something kind about my parenting. “Many thanks, Gaby. I’m making an effort.”
You believe there is a solution here? A slap in the face, that is!”
“No, Gaby. I’m establishing boundaries with this. Together, we construct our family’s future rather than stealing what isn’t rightfully ours.”
Her finger pricked my chest. “You’re side with your daughters instead of us. Give it up!”
“I’ve decided to respect Edith’s desires. And we have a big issue if you are unable to appreciate that.”
Gaby started crying, but I wasn’t sure if she was sincere or just trying to trick me. “Charlie, I believed that we were partners. What was yours, I believed to be mine.”
“Gaby, we are partners. However, that does not imply ignoring Edith’s legacy or the past.”
The next few weeks were a blur of clipped chats and cold silences. Gaby took turns giving me the cold shoulder and trying to guilt-trip me. But I remained steadfast and wouldn’t move.
“Daddy, is everything okay with you and Gaby?” said my oldest daughter one evening as I was putting her daughters to bed.
I hesitated, thinking carefully before I said. “My love, we’re dealing with some mature issues. But please, don’t worry.”
She gave a nod, but concern was in her eyes. “We don’t want you to be sad again, Daddy.”
My heart tightened. I took her in my arms and gave her a head kiss. “Hey, I’m not depressed. I swear. What matters most to me is that you are happy.”
Gaby was waiting for me in the corridor, her eyes furrowed and her arms folded, as I emerged from their room.
“Charlie, those are good kids. However, my girls are equally deserving.”
She was still standing there, and I let out a sigh. “Those are decent young people. Every single one of them. And we ought to help them all.”
She shook her head and scoffed. “Assist? The trust fund really would have helped. But didn’t you just have to step up and save your darling Edith?
Playing the hero isn’t the point here. Respect is at issue. Honoring Edith’s desires and planning for our daughters’ futures.”
What about the future of my daughters? Or do you not find that significant?”
Taking a deep breath, I prepared myself. “We’ve also established a fund for them. Remember that we’re developing it together? That’s how we proceed.”
With a harsh laugh, she laughed. “Oh, kindly. That’s just your ploy to appease me. You can tell that something has changed.
When our gazes locked, I could see the storm in her eyes and I knew she saw mine. I understood that there was yet much to be won. I also knew that I would never give up.
Months went by, and although there weren’t as many arguments, the underlying animosity persisted. Gaby came up to me one evening while I was watching the four girls play in the backyard.
They appear content, she remarked.
I gave a nod, keeping my gaze fixed on the kids. “They do.”
With a grim expression, she turned to face me. “But it could’ve been better for all of them if you’d just listened to me.”
I fixed a steady stare on her. “No, Gaby. It was not going to be better. It would have been inconsiderate and unjust.
She started to object, but I waved my hand. “We’ve finished our conversation. It has been for some months now.”
I felt both relieved and saddened as she stormed off. I knew I’d made the correct decision, even though it hurt to watch my marriage in disarray because Gaby had shown her true nature.
She had rapidly come to realize that I was no pushover. She was in for another surprise if she believed she could effortlessly enter our lives and change the rules to suit her interests.
As severe as it was, this was the wake-up call she needed.
I had been very clear in what I stood for: Edith left an unbreakable legacy for our kids. Never, ever, not today, not tomorrow.
And watching Gaby accept that she couldn’t control me or intimidate me into doing anything? Every second was worthwhile!
Observing my girls play and laugh filled my heart with a resolve to be the greatest father I could be. What was most important to me was safeguarding their future and their mother’s memories. I knew that, as I had done from the beginning, I would take on whatever obstacles that awaited me with Gaby.